Saturday 11 April 2015

Darting eyes

So ... let me ask a question, .. no teacher ever watch your darting eyes and did take it upon themselves to inquire about your home situation?

There is much that is revealed... but at no point is it admitted that the beatings started as a child.

But if you know the signs, you can tell. 

I once bullied a man from work with those eyes.

He actually cowered under my verbal tirade. 

But the difference is, when he did it, I just.... stopped.

(Get a grip, Woodknot)

At that point, he was offered to sit.

And the whole story of the alcoholic father and violence came out.

Apology...

And awareness.

He claimed he didn't know what I said that had triggered him. Adults who get patched up, can usually fake it well enough to pass. But under stress,... it shows.

And frankly... Monkey know which back to climb.

That's the problem with letting the child abuse pass folks...

You end up with broken adults.... who do not know how to connect with their own children.

Because they haven't been taught.

Teaching Compassion and Empathy.... 

Yes Linafree is right.


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